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Radical Feminism  »  Prostitution

 Prostitution Is Not A Choice 


Alice Glass

I was only 18 when I got involved in prostitution, after an adolescence fettered by bullying, homelessness, depression and a predilection for self-harm. I was not in a position to make this choice freely – if we are to understand the nature of freedom to its fullest extent. And nor were most of the other women I met. I worked across the flimsy class divides in prostitution – working class brothels, middle class escort agencies – and all of the women I met carried with them the same bundles of neurosis, addiction and melancholy. Without exception.

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Having to manifest sexual activity due to desperation is not consent.

 Testimonial  

Alice Glass

Prostitution, if it is anything, is a choice between homelessness and having men we don’t like, do things we hate, to bodies we don’t know how to love.

 FACT: Women often struggle to leave prostitution  

Sarah Lewis

As a woman who does not have a college education and has no work experience, I could basically choose from working food service, retail — any low-skill, low-wage work, or the sex industry.

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When your best choice is taking off your clothes, and sticking toys in your cunt for money, I think there's a real problem with the labour system.

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 The Price of Pleasure  

Mickey Meji

My mother had been a live-in domestic worker and we were forced to move ... when her employers left the country. Everything changed

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I didn’t do this by choice but because of circumstances.

 Prostitution Is Neither Sex Nor Work, It Is Exploitation  

Jenna Jameson

My father had no idea that at 16, my boyfriend (23 yrs old)and his father were grooming me to be trafficked

 Twitter - @jennajameson  

Bridget Perrier

I never chose prostitution. It chose me, and it chose me because I was vulnerable, and I was vulnerable because I had been broken and fractured as a little girl.

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No little girl ... says I'm gonna grow up to service multitudes of men.

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 Combating Sex Trafficking: The Nordic Model  

Ally-Marie Diamond

‘Sex work’ is a glorified term for paid rape! Those men never paid me for my time or company. They paid to fuck me in every single hole they could find, even when I said no. Getting fucked 20 times or more a day is NOT Work. This is terrorism against women. A sustained international attack on vulnerable women, girls, children.

They may not blow up buildings or themselves, but they blew up my mind, my body, my soul. They sent me to a torture chamber that I would never escape from. Because even today I fight to survive, to live, to feel worthy, to be loved, to dream.

 Prostitution Survivor Testimony: Ally-Marie Diamond  

Megan King

I met many other women through my time in prostitution and learnt their stories and am confident that the majority of these women are not free and liberated. When you are involved, you convince yourself that you are happy, as it’s the only way to stay sane in a world where you are bought and sold as an item and then reviewed online like an Ebay product. It is only upon finally finding the courage as well as the ability to leave, that you can truly objectively review your experiences and see it for what it was.

 Prostitution Survivor Testimony: Megan King